Vivian Anugo is a songwriter and a worship leader. Originally from Nigeria, she moved to the United States in 2010. She started leading songs in her elementary school and since then, has sung with numerous choirs for over 20 years.
I’m sure we’ve seen the memes on social media or heard a few people make a joke or two about when a girl asks the famous “What are we” question! Thinking about it too makes me cringe because even I have uttered the same question but is there really a problem with asking? I mean if you’ve met someone and things seem to be going well and you like this person, they aren’t giving you a clear understanding on where “this thing” is going, what do they expect you to do?
Have you ever had a work deadline, a family function, a doctor’s appointment for your child coupled with a list of unending chores at home all happening at the same time? That sounds like the typical schedule of a 21st century mom!
Sexual assault is a very traumatic and painful situation that affects those that have been assaulted. According to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), 1 in 5 women and 1 in 71 men reported experiencing rape at some time in their lives while 1 in 20 women and men have experienced sexual violence. Those numbers are STAGGERING!!! This means that someone in your circle might have been raped but just has not said anything to you or you might know someone that was raped.
A wise person once said that "although we may not be able to prepare the future for our children, we can at least prepare our children for future" (Franklin Roosevelt). We often hear of children with great potential and strong academic prowess who might have to incur a huge amount of debt in order to achieve their academic aspirations. Therefore, as wise mothers, it is important for us to look ahead and start saving for our children's future.
Let’s be honest, the world has changed a lot and so has the dating process! It has gotten a bit more complicated, I mean legit confusing! People out here trying to figure out things like where do I meet new people? When I see someone I like, how do I step up? How long should we be dating before becoming exclusive? How do I know when I have found the one? and the list goes on and on.